living in an all adhd household is like

you're sitting there getting ready for your day and suddenly everybody is trying to clean up coffee that spilled all over everything

i actually wrecked my laptop about 10 years ago when i was getting ready to move for grad school and totally killed it. and everybody was like

well you shouldn't have done that

oh well you picked up your computer wrong afterwards

etc etc i am the fool

of course i didn't INTEND to sit down and spill an entire cup of coffee on my computer until it was spilling out the ports, but people like to feel like they would never

today most things seem unscathed
the worst thing about the adhd tax is smarmy people saying "i simply would not have done that" and they can all go to hell

@[email protected] I still get the warm fuzzies each time I remember the day that my wife asked me "why did you forget ?" and my teenage son answered for me "Isn't the real question why would the family member with ADHD remember it?"

(Side note: my wife is actually pretty good at understanding the executive function side of my ADHD in general, but having an insanely good memory herself she (ironically) constantly forgets that I forget things)

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