forestineliving in an all adhd household is like
you're sitting there getting ready for your day and suddenly everybody is trying to clean up coffee that spilled all over everything
i actually wrecked my laptop about 10 years ago when i was getting ready to move for grad school and totally killed it. and everybody was like
well you shouldn't have done that
oh well you picked up your computer wrong afterwards
etc etc i am the fool
of course i didn't INTEND to sit down and spill an entire cup of coffee on my computer until it was spilling out the ports, but people like to feel like they would never
utility himbo@forestine They absolutely can go to hell. It's selfish, self-soothing behavior on their part that makes them feel better by putting psychological distance between them and you which does not really exist, anyone can and does lose things or mess up or forget stuff no matter how important it is. But some people just need to reassure themselves that they're Better and it, ironically, makes them the worst!