When women have a crush on men

https://lemmus.org/post/20701572

This feels like “haha men stupid” and I dont like it.
Unfortunately I’ve very definitely had this problem many times in my life. I really don’t like to assume someone’s interested in me unless it’s far beyond obvious.

but it’s in the context of husband and wife, not even dating. I can understand dating, but married? long term? what?

damn I think it’s worse now, just boomer humor wife/husband bad. aw damn.

I get the dating side of the joke.

People change and feelings change in 25 years, and with children in the house we’re more like coworkers than a couple now. There’s plenty of opportunities for conflict and so little time for each other. So yes, it’s natural to doubt in such circumstances.