@jojo I got -incredibly- self-conscious post-transition about wearing bike shorts, the dysphoria of seeing myself otherwise being dressed femme but seeing -that- down there had a lot of whiplash.

Over time, though, I've gotten used to it, and if anything I'm now really happy with how I look in a tank and bike shorts, it comes off very femme to me after a long ride, and I barely notice how things sit around the shorts.

What ripped the balance for me was a few weekends in a row where I went out biking, hated the thought of it.. but caught glimpses of myself in the reflection of windows along the way, realised how femme-presenting I was in outline, and how little you actually notice things through the spandex when you're focused on the overall body.