CatgirlSomething weird happened đź«
Jorunn (she/her)You should mark this as NSFW.
It’s perfectly valid to not wanna tell anyone, and it’s also good to be proud of who you are and where you’ve gotten. I don’t really know that there’s a right answer here, it’s probably one of those things that you need to feel out, kinda like him with your cervix.
I think you’re right. It’s a non solid answer. It’s like the old saying about cheating. For some people, cheating means intercourse or kissing someone else. For others, you could fuck someone in a gas station bathroom and it’s not cheating. Depends on the relationship.
The sharing of that information is an uncertain answer in my option. Not really sure.
Maybe an underlying thought is, are you fully who you are while withholding information? Is the relationship going to be 100% or will it feel like there’s a secret?
Again, can’t honestly say either way as it’s not my situation.