@adhd_coffee after finding out I have ADHD and hearing many heartbreaking life stories of those with it, I understand how blessed I am to have an overlap in all three areas. The rest of my life may be 16 blenders trying to blend each other, but working in tech for a living has been good to and for me. Big hugs to those struggling, I hope you find your thing, whatever that thing is, and for however long it helps.