CurlyWurlies4AllMar 5

40% of teenage boys believe women lie about domestic and sexual violence: new research

https://slrpnk.net/post/34929961

40% of teenage boys believe women lie about domestic and sexual violence: new research - SLRPNK

Support for violence to resist feminism was highest among adolescent boys (28%), followed closely by adolescent girls (21%). Perhaps most alarming: roughly 40% of boys aged 13 to 17 agreed that women lie about domestic and sexual violence. These results raise crucial questions going forward. We don’t yet know how these views have changed over time, whether they are on the rise and what the links are between violent extremism and the negative treatment of women.

Show threadFleur_Mar 5

Read the comments in this thread, read this:

“Social research has shown boys and men increasingly feel alienated, humiliated or uncertain about their place in the world.”

We just need to call young men stupid one more time guys and gender equality will be achieved. No wonder they feel their being lied to.

Show threadUnspecificGravityMar 6
Training boys to be douchebags is why this is happening.
Show threadFleur_
Yeah they’re being courted by the far right because the far right aren’t calling them idiots. Really not that hard to grasp.
Mar 6 at 12:10amWeb
Show threadUnspecificGravityMar 6
I see. They are douchebags because people observed they are douchebags. That makes sense, if you are a fucking moron.
Show threadNaibofTabrMar 6
People who are treated like outcasts behave like outcasts.
Show threadUnspecificGravityMar 6
Its not anyone else’s job to fix you.
Show threadCTDummyMar 6
How very American of you.
Show threadMadzielleMar 6

I agree with the statement, but add, without a proper support system, its impossible to do the inner work for yourself. We need external support, and we have to try for ourselves.

The whole, lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink. Dont mean we shouldnt still help em get to the water.

Show threadNaibofTabrMar 6

It is not any one individual’s responsibility to fix any other particular individual, true.

Rather, it is the community’s responsibility to care for the community. All of the community.

If you start declaring some members of the community to be undeserving of care, then you are no better than the fascists.

Show threadnodiratimeMar 6
The absolute audacity to vilify people/put them on blast constantly (bonus points for single mothers and having worse raising outcomes than single dads e.g.) and then act all high and mightly and demanding they “pull themselves up by their boostraps”.
Show threadNaraukoMar 6
There’s an old saying: “the child who does not receive the warmth of the village will burn it down to feel warm.”
Show threadFleur_Mar 6
If you didn’t think I was already a moron why would you call me one? Are you really incapable of seeing how difficult it is for me to engage constructively with your argument while you are constantly interweaving it with personal attacks? I couldn’t ask for a better example of how calling people dumb makes it hard for them to engage with their ideas. Again, no wonder young men with no experience are being entrapped by the far right.
Show threadUnspecificGravityMar 6
Yes, this is a stupid post because it was made by a person that was called a moron, not because it was made by a person that is actually a moron.
Show threadFleur_Mar 6
What are you even talking about mate?
Show threadwonderingwandererMar 6
I think they were projecting a lil
Show threadCypherMar 6

Yes, this is a stupid post

I gotta respect the self report

Show threadnjm1314Mar 6
The far right are calling them idiots which is the weird thing. You ever pay attention to how those influencers speak to them? They basically neg these kids.
Show threadFleur_Mar 6

Good point, I would be interested in learning more about that. I feel like it may be because the insult is always a precursor to their actual message. For example “you’re a loser with no girlfriend, but it’s because women only respect alpha males. Here’s how you become one…” It uses their insecurity to sell them misogyny and right wing ideology. I think structurally different to and mentally easier to accept than how a man might be insulted from a left wing perspective. Example: “you’re a loser with no girlfriend because you’re an incel who hates women.”

Objectively the left wing one is closer to the truth and heeding its advice would be more likely to socialise them and put them on the path of finding love and companionship, but it’s pretty obvious to see which of the two a young inexperienced and insecure man would be more likely to follow.

Show threadIlandarMar 6
I think your intuition is 100% right, there. It’s always easier to hear “it’s not your fault” and they know this.
Show threadFreedomAdvocateMar 9

They’re not even being courted by the “far right” - they’re just being pushed away from the left, by the left.

Whoever would have thought that calling people names, attacking them, etc simply for existing and daring to not bow to your ideology is not the way to make friends and get people on your side? Incredible.