@fdriesenaar I'm talking about more than money when it comes to most humans being inherently selfish. As a disabled person who never stopped masking up, I've seen selfishness in terms of caring about more than just yourself with being covid safe/masked up around the community. I've seen people who don't have much, harshly judge & refuse to help the homeless, while putting privileged jerks on pedestals. Those are selfish & ignorant personal choices.
I don't want everyone to follow me nor have I ever cared about numbers of followers. If I did, I wouldn't have deleted my previous Tiktok with over 30K followers or deleted my past FB photography biz page with over 14K followers. I prefer Mastodon/Fediverse without corporate controls or algorithms. I have deleted over 200 followers here, back in 2023, when I was on a different instance. If follower numbers truly mattered to me, I wouldn't have deleted anyone.
I tolerate most folks. I have basic standards of human decency for personal association though. I will definitely exclude bigots/Nazis & also ostracize folks who choose to sit with bigots/Nazis.