On one hand, I donโ€™t find huge muscles attractive.

On the other, I would find it attractive if someone could pick me up and carry my 6โ€™6โ€™', 260lbs ass one handed like a toddler.

This right here.

I need an androgynous guy that has the waistline of one of my legs (Iโ€™m a bear, okay), , but the strength to toss me across the room into bed while simultaneously carrying our dinner on a platter in the other hand, without even a change in their breaths.

Unf, yes.