Almost 5 years ago but it really shaped my thinking. AITAH for trying to be their friends and missing social cues?

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/39121910

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I feel like I overreacted by not speaking to them and seeing them as mean people because maybe I’m the mean one for not understanding they didn’t like me.

This seems like clear gaslighting by them at its finest.

NTA. These people sound like miserable jerks who find reasons to hate anyone different from them.