I'm preparing to (hopefully) host a 13th Age game that I imagine will have to organize online, and I'm intentionally avoiding Discord. Foundry VTT (already deployed, I like it, not changing that tech) supports Jitsi and LiveKit; I've intended to do a video/voice thing but never pulled the trigger, so that choice is a clean slate for me right now. opinions out there on Jitsi vs. LiveKit, at a minimum for this purpose?
I also note that the built in WebRTC in Foundry VTT works fine in my n=1 people test, but I see a lot of concern about server performance. experience on that welcome too.