"A man free of patriarchy is a man who has found not only every woman's humanity, but one who has at last discovered his own. The actual path to liberation for lonely men is feminism—because pursuing an identity based on dominating others is self-isolating."

https://www.the-reframe.com/fix-your-hearts-or-die/

Fix Your Hearts or Die

It's a invitation, not a threat. The path to liberation for lonely men is feminism.

The Reframe
Ever since the 1970s when I saw high school boys playing slaughter ball* I have been convinced we need men's liberation. I've caught a lot of flak over the years for saying that, but you make the argument nicely. We were going that way in the 1970s, but then came the 1980s, and you know how that went. Reagan was the origin of so much that went wrong.
*on rainy days, boys PE would get up on the stage in the gym, divide into two groups, and throw half-inflated volleyballs at each other. They had to be half inflated because they hurt more than fully inflated balls. The world would be a better place if no one was forced to do that.