> I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.

I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

Objectification, hate, rape threats: the politicians debating online abuse mean well, but to truly understand, they need to see what I see

The Guardian
I am increasingly convinced social media ban IS the answer. Not a ban for under-16, but a total ban. Commercial social media just quite simply has to be burned to the ground, no one even tries to run it safely any more.
@neil

@osma @neil

Social media has also helped incredible amounts of people though. It's allowed marginalized minorities to find people like them. It's allowed people to organize against oppressive governments.

It's also curated local events and increased turnout and access to so many things for so many people.

We can say "burn it to the ground" and part of me wants to agree, but... It would harm a lot of people too.

@CordiallyChloe @osma @neil I dare say - initially the social networks (blogs, early Twitter) also helped privileged people like me (cis het white abled male in EU) to hear the voices of all kinds of less represented groups, also abroad.
In the physical world, in direct interaction, the local demographics and social structure both are a strong filter. News came in from a limited number of (controlled, tamed, poisoned) outlets.
This completely shielded us privileged from all the suffering, and the struggle, needs, concerns, opinions, ideas existing outside our small landscape:
early social networks were a way to escape some of these physical filters.
Now they are another system of filters, and I think only a cognizant use of mastodon and RSS (and Signal) would have the same positive function they initially had.

@joe_vinegar @osma @neil

That's exactly why the right wing has been so persistent in taking control of it all. Twitter was one of our biggest sources of information and exposure. When Musk took it over, minorities immediately scattered. I know for a fact that MOST trans people left the platform immediately, fully deleting their accounts.

You can still find exposure to new thoughts and ideas through reddit and insta, but you have to choose it and you have to be prepared to filter out the slop and hate in the process. And that's a big ask for most people.