A.R. Moxon, Verified Duck 🦆"A man free of patriarchy is a man who has found not only every woman's humanity, but one who has at last discovered his own. The actual path to liberation for lonely men is feminism—because pursuing an identity based on dominating others is self-isolating."
Duckbilled Plattypus.This is why I follow @JuliusGoat. Moxon can have exquisite clarity of thought, and puncture through toxic noise and ubiquitous mainstream sloganeering propaganda. "The Reframe" isn't simply a cute name, it's an active example of Critical Thinking. It's what we need in these times.
This is the best, clearest, most thoughtful articles on the toxic frame of "male loneliness - why aren't women fixing it" and "not all men are bad - women better stop choosing the bear" by a man. These are deliberate misogynistic frames that shift responsibility from men (of all ages) to fix their lives to women to fix men's lives, replicating a toxic relationship pattern of victim/persecutor/rescuer that solves nothing and harms and erases women, and from a lived man's (Moxon) experience hollows out and harms men.
I wish men would read this, shout "Eureka!" and make their own lives whole. They can, if they choose.
@JuliusGoat is one of the best reasons not to give up on hope.