* I don't really want to use a ton of power / have a lot of bulky devices. It seems annoying to have to have a discrete router, wireless AP and switch.
* I don't really want to have to manage tons of advanced features, or need 2.5gpbs + speeds, hardware VPN, traffic shaping, VLANs etc.
* I wonder if the answer might be to virtualize a router OS / Appliance on my proxmox box but that seems kinda dangerous? And I guess I'd still need a switch + Wireless AP?
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Has anyone navigated these waters before?
It's annoying that the modem/router is SO close to what I need but in order to, eg, make my devices pick up a local pi-hole instance automatically I'd need to invest in a few hundred pounds of hardware and increase my power bills 😕
Any advice? 3/3
I can tell you what I did, take what you want or not, but I ended up with a much superior setup.
I set my ISP router in bridge mode so, like you said, it just functions as the modem.
I got a mini PC with 2 network interfaces. On that, I run Proxmox, OpenWRT in a VM, and Docker in an LXC where I run pihole, unbound, Nginx Proxy Manager, a few other services. So this is my router, DNS, DHCP, etc.
In another place in my home I installed an Omada EAP. Wifi coverage is much better.