Chippys_mittensFeb 20

How do you personally determine if someone is a good or bad person?

https://lemmy.world/post/43371882

How do you personally determine if someone is a good or bad person? - Lemmy.World

If you don’t agree with the concept of good or bad people, you dont have to answer. If you think a person is good or bad based on where they were born you don’t have to answer.

Show threadCADmonkeyFeb 20

I’ve always struggled with it, so I’ve learned to ask someone better at character judgement than I.

I used to check with my dog. Then I met my wife and found out over a year how moral she was and how consistently she applied those morals. Now I ask her.

Show threadYappyMonotheist
Out of curiosity and nothing else, why do you think you’re a poor judge of character? And are you neurodivergent in some way (I’m an ADHD enjoyer, btw, I’m not hating here)?
Feb 20 at 9:33pmWeb
Show threadCADmonkeyFeb 20
Past experience, mostly. My neurons are divergent as well, and anyone who was nice to me could get my trust, which often turned into someone taking advantage of me or backstabbing me.
Show threadYappyMonotheistFeb 20
Thanks for the reply. I’m glad to know you’ve found someone you can trust safely!