@glyph @SnoopJ @mcc I think you are calling out something important and relevant here, which is that we live in a society that attempts to judge people's interiority:
- is this person actually ADHD, or are they just lying about it for the drugs?
- is this person actually a woman, or are they just lying about it for the access?
- is this person actually mentally ill, or are they just pretending to be for the attention?
I see...
- is this person actually putting in effort, or are they just lying about it for the social approval?
... as a natural addition to this corrosive series. I think being in an adversarial relationship with the interiority of strangers is one of the worst ideas we have normalized: even when it "works" it fucks up people for life. "I must be a fraud because I don't feel like I put in enough effort" is both a common and a deeply awful lesson to learn. I'm sure you've encountered people who learned it, so ask them, how is it going?
(I have heard that some other societies, like China, put more social emphasis on performance of the ritual than on performance of the belief; as in, you can believe whatever you want but you better act as-if you believe the things we reward. that has its own problems but I much prefer it to the above, with the caveat that I don't know how accurate of a representation this is.)
lastly, I don't think "is this person spending effort" is at all easy to evaluate. is the effort of a person who finds learning Mandarin easy intrinsically more valuable than the effort of a person who finds learning Mandarin hard? given the same result for both I'd say no, but since both pay for it with their lifetime, under the proposed evaluation rules the answer would be yes.
quiz: do you think I, as an open source developer, "put in the effort?" (this is a sincere question)