When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.
@cmconseils the thing is, they allready found that person they´re hope for so hard. but they overlook this person themself, like all others do. what a mean behaviour.
they know this person from their first breath
@cmconseils spot on, thank you for writing this !
@cmconseils I get it, you've met my mother. Seriously though, this does track precisely with my experiences.
@cmconseils You remind me a lot of my wife. She is that kind of giver. I am so glad that she found me. Someone who appreciates and loves her for that and also loves to give back. We fill each other's cups.
@cmconseils I would never show her this, because she would blush and demand that I stop it. It's so cute when I make her blush with love.
@cmconseils I got her an orchid plant, native to the region, and it's doing quite well.
@cmconseils you just described my life!!