@TheBreadmonkey It's maddening. I'm caretaking for parents and a disabled sister, so I'm handling a lot of that for three households (and a business). If I had the money, I would hire a part time personal assistant to do all the driving and paperwork.
Also, it's basically impossible to play Phone Tag with contractors and insurers when you have a job that has a lot of meetings. I literally can't answer the phone for 70% of business hours, creating a self-sustaining game of endless missed calls.
I'm sorry. That sounds really tough. Where do you live (general country / area, not your address)?
Ah I was going to ask if you've looked at online support groups or any eligible additional help that might be available. In the UK there are often initiatives, benefits or volunteers that you can look into but we're quite built up and I think New England is quite spaced out? I'm sure you have already thought of that, but occasionally someone will suggest something to me I hadn't considered and it turns out to be useful. Power to you anyway. I hope all of the good things for you and yours. 😊❤️