Honestly, we're just looking to go in a new direction with different positions.

https://lemmy.world/post/39809108

Thats because they are afraid you’re going to lose it and verbally, physically or mentally abuse them.
They have police, cutting people off, & public shaming for that.
Ah yes, the police, the institution that is widely respected as being effective at ending domestic violence, filled with people who would never perpetrate such domestic violence themselves.