luminelle_roseNov 22

As an asexual girl who still wants a male partner, would “scheduled sex” be a dealbreaker for men?

https://lemmy.world/post/39152421

As an asexual girl who still wants a male partner, would “scheduled sex” be a dealbreaker for men? - Lemmy.World

I don’t like sex, I don’t have a sex drive. At the same time, I don’t feel repulsed by it either. So I’d be willing to have a schedule so that my hypothetical partner has his needs met.

Show threadnomadNov 22
I have a partner like this. Only I didn’t know for 10 years. Only noticed she would do her duty. I can assure you this is not enough. She is the avoidant type and can’t help it. Now we have three kids and I can’t leave them. Sex is out of the question now obviously and life together is hard.
Show threadprotist
Divorcing doesn’t mean leaving them. It can be possible to separate amicably. You’re likely to be a better father to your children if you take care of yourself, too
Nov 22 at 12:57pmWeb
Show threadx00zNov 22

Divorce is a big word.

Where’s the open marriage advice?

Show threadprotistNov 22
Dude sounds pretty miserable, I don’t know if opening the marriage is going to solve that
Show threadx00zNov 22

It could fix a marriage, and it’s something they can try before divorce.

If she does not want it, that’s a totally different story.

Show threadprotistNov 22
I’m in no way opposed to anyone opening their marriage, however I think the number of couples for whom opening a marriage also saves their marriage is miniscule compared to the number of people who separate and are happier for it
Show threadx00zNov 22
Well you gave your input and I hope OP thinks about it. I for one have seen it work.
Show threadJakeroxsNov 22