AITA for not speaking to a life long friend because I want an apology?

https://lemmy.world/post/38369577

AITA for not speaking to a life long friend because I want an apology? - Lemmy.World

AITA, on April 29th, I noticed a FB post from my BFF, it’s theme was about “leaving a party early”. My BFF notoriously falls asleep early and drifts away from any gatherings at his house. In the comments section, I posted a photo from about '92-'93, of him sleeping on a couch. I’m in the photo behind the couch. Two other friends are at each end of the couch. Either sitting on the armrest or leaning on it. No booze, drugs or anyone flipping the bird. IMO: very innocent photo. A couple of days after my photo comment, he sent at least 3 text in rapid fire mode. Essentially “screaming” at me to delete that photo. It took a brief moment to get onto FB and delete that photo. But, those texts all came in faster than I could take care of the situation. Keep in mind, it’s on HIS FB page, he had full control to delete the photo himself. Then, he could’ve “yelled” at me via text/phone call. IMO: he owes me an apology for the way he “screamed” at me via text. We haven’t said more than “Hey.” at any group gatherings since the episode. AITA?

AITA?

I mean, that doesn’t matter.

Don’t think of it like “who’s the asshole here,” not over this. Just talk. Friends are way more important than judgements like that.

My personality is too rigid. (BPD). I always talk myself into needing that apology, first.

Fair.

But don’t dwell on it! Just talk, and talk some more. I promise, you will be happier that way.

Ha, don’t “dwell” about it. More than 6 months already 🙄