"But until I see a male writer asked that question, I am going to respectfully decline to answer it.”

Source:
https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2018/07/lauren-groff-on-florida-as-a-state-of-mind/

@Natasha_Jay Good for you. as a man when I did my Masters and post-grad it was hard to juggle but my wife and I share the load which is what happened when she did hers