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If a girl asks you if you're big, are you supposed to lie or not?

If a girl asks you if you're big, are you supposed to lie or not? - Discuss Online

This reads like a joke question, I know, but I actually mean it. Are you supposed to answer this sort of suggestive question with honesty? Or is this generally meant to be answered either in coy or affirmation? Because I don’t want to ruin the mood but I also don’t want to unwittingly spoil her expectations. (FYI, I’m average sized.)

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stinerman Oct 18

It depends on the context. Does she expect a serious answer? Do you feel comfortable telling her? If so you may want to use quantitative measurements (ie., an accurate length in cm/in) rather than vague adjectives like “big”. One person’s “big” is another person’s “average.”

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throwawaysalami Oct 18

Does she expect a serious answer? That’s what I’m asking here. Do they generally expect a serious answer or not?

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stinerman

I am not a good person to ask because I’ve never been asked that question. My only suggestion is to try to discern the tone of her voice when she asks.

You are allowed to ask “are you serious?”