Losing your virginity to get back at someone. Good idea or bad idea? - Discuss Online
Hi, This is going to be a bit of a crazy story. I heard this from someone and
now I am so angry at this other person where I am willing to lose my virginity
to put him in his place. But I feel like this is incredibly stupid. So here
goes. I am a man, in my mid twenties and still a virgin mainly because I want to
lose it to the right person. I am still in college and we just got some new
students to join our fraternity. I meet this new guy (let’s call him Ben) and
he’s really friendly, relaxed and has a positive atmosphere about him. In fact,
he even manages to get some more people to sign up, so really good stuff. During
parties he also invites over some girls that he know and I get to meet this
female friend of his (let’s refer to her as Beth). She’s also fun to be around,
bit of a heavy set woman but a really good dancer none the less. About a month
passes, we’re at a house party and we’re standing outside. Beth is smoking a
sigaret, I’m just outside to take a break from all the stimuli. We get to talk
and out of the blue she tells me how she doesn’t like the fact that Ben keeps
calling her a whore. At first I thought she was kidding because of how
unexpectedly and nonchalantly she said it. But we keep talking and she let’s me
in on some drama between her and Ben. Apparently Ben is an extremely jealous
type of person, and also a bisexual. He gets extremely sour when Beth is
sleeping with the same guy he slept with. So much so that he called her an
“ordinary whore” when he found out. I asked her why she would even take such an
insult. Well apparently she had an abusive father and doesn’t know how to deal
with verbal abuse very well. So anyway Ben being the jealous type that he is has
decided to “claim” five people, for Beth to stay away from. Even, and I
specifically asked about this, if these people are heterosexual. And here comes
the kicker I am one those five people. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I
absolutely couldn’t believe it. I am so outraged, I am absolutely livid, both
for my and Beth’s sake. How is she an ordinary whore, when you lose your fucking
mind at concept of her sleeping with other men??? Even men who aren’t even
interested in you??? Also how the fuck do you treat a friend like that?? I, and
the same goes for the other five, am not some sort of dog for you to claim,
that’s absolutely disgusting! So now I am at a point where I am like: “I’ll show
this sorry son of a bitch where it’s at!” You know, by sleeping with Beth. But I
don’t think I fully like her that way, as I said she is on the heavier side of
the scale, and sort wanted to wait until I meet someone I genuinely like. At the
same time it would really be fun to put this bastard in his place. But I feel
like where I am throwing fuel to the fire and hoping for an explosion I could
just as easily make this whole thingamajig even worse. So what do you guys
think? Stupid, right? Well that’s what this community is for. TLDR: There is
this guy who is (allegedly) a jealous bounder. I am really mad at him and feel
bad for this girl. I feel like getting back at him by sleeping with her. But I
don’t particularly find her attractive. Anyway, smart or stupid plan?
