Me, who has learned where the ladyparts lay, enjoys taking time to get to know them and typically doesn’t need mechanical assistance due to sufficient preamble.
It can be wet down there but still bad friction though. Lube is a game changer.
I just absolutely hate the way lube feels on my skin, idk if its an autistic adjacent trait or what. Similar with lotion just kinda like nails on a chalkboard
Could try different kinds of lube. oils and silicone are very different feeling to water-based.