@Ea5iyl @gsuberland @DocBohn @golgaloth if the 4 letter label didn't exist for me, I would've simply gotten different labels like "deadbeat" or "drug addict" or "completely useless" or "fucking dead."
It's not like we had an option to just be unlabeled. If you've gone your whole life without any sort of ableist label on you that's at least as bad as "ADHD", I'm pretty sure they wouldn't have labeled you with "ADHD" either. It took *a lot* for me to get that "label"