20 years ago, normal people avoided technology and techies would jump on the newest gadgets as soon as they could

now, normal people buy smart toasters & coffee mugs while every techie I know is on the verge of retreating to the forest

@JellyTBeagle Except in cybersecurity. Luddites like whoa. I have worked with people who still have flip phones. It just took the rest of tech that long to catch up with the paranoid old farts.

@Cetraria @JellyTBeagle

::raises hand::

I've never been an early adopter. It irritates the living shit out of me that I've become as dependent as I have.

Every. Freakin'. Time I'm faced with an update, I just want to crush it with a rock....

@cavyherd @Cetraria @JellyTBeagle This rings true.
I was always an early adopter, now I want to become a Luddite.

@dacig @Cetraria @JellyTBeagle

I've always been, bc it was obvious to me from a very early age where this was headed. It's deeply irritating (in an ironic kind of way) that one can do some very cool things with tech. I've (mostly) managed to avoid getting hooked.

But there was that one little box with a CRT on the front that made it •so• much easier to write fiction....

@cavyherd @dacig @JellyTBeagle I got hooked by the Internet in the eighties, but I also am quoted in an interview online in the 2000s as saying the Internet would likely become an unusable slag heap in ten years.

My therapist was genuinely perplexed when I said meeting people online was the first time I was able to find acceptance, and a place I could avoid bullying. I know that's not people's experience now. The enshittification has been thorough.

@Cetraria @dacig @JellyTBeagle

Your therapist was an ignoramous. Probably very well meaning, but seriously? (I hope this was A While Ago. If it was recent—I would seriously question their bona fides.)

I met one of my two best friends in rec.arts.sf.babylon5 (which dates me/us, yes.)

I had an advantage in being plugged into a segment of #ScienceFiction #fandom that were early adopters (back when it was reasonable to do that). So the transition from RL to The Net was nearly seamless for me. >

@Cetraria @dacig @JellyTBeagle

I've now lost track of a large chunk of that community bc they've all gone over to Bluesky & I refuse to follow, until the issues @pluralistic names are addressed. I am deeply disappointed by them, but OTOH I get it, bc a lot of them are authors, so audience size is an important factor. But that they didn't have the spine to exercise some leadership—well.

People gonna people, whaddya gonna do?