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ššššš[Serious] What non-political thing do you wish more people would make another consideration for?
darkmarxReading. Too many people say they hate reading because itās boring or there is no point. Most cite the books they went over (probably never read) in school. They think everything is going to be like Romeo and Juliet or something. They donāt seem to realize that you study classics in school and that there are troves of modern books that theyād enjoy. I like to find out their favorite movies and get them an audio book in the same genre. Itās easier to get them to listen to one than to read one. I now have a handful of people who come to me asking what they should listen to or read next.
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Iced RaktajinoSeriously, this. I canāt stand to read āthe classicsā but I love reading things that interest me. Would be nice of schools recognized that and encouraged reading just for the sake of it rather than forcing kids to trudge through endless stanzas of āye art incorrect and thou must protest this injustice. Oh Horatio!ā. Let kids do book reports on Harry Potter (or whateverās cool these days). At least theyāre reading.
Provided itās got a decent narrator, audiobooks are like literal bedtime stories, and a lot of players have āsleep modeā that will either set a timer or stop it after the current chapter. Seems like an easy way to get people into them, IMO.
I have two of Stephen Fryās autobiographies on audiobook and would basically let his smooth voice lull me to sleep. š
Every time. Without fail. When people talk about amazing audiobokks, it always comes back to Stephen Fry. GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL WHO SAIL IN YOU, SIR!
The genre doesnāt exist, but it should: āBedtime Stories: Narrated by Morgan Freeman and Stepehn Fryā.
DominusOfMegadeusI would pay good money for anything narrated by Babs Olusanmokun. It can be the IRS tax code for all I care. That manās voice is like auditory melted caramel.
ZagorathProvided itās got a decent narrator, audiobooks are like literal bedtime stories
One of my favourite books Iāve literally only read on audiobook. I donāt love ebooks, and this book is out of print with second-hand copies going for $200+ online, so audiobook is basically the only option. Itās not the same experience as reading with your eyes, but itās still a great way to get the story.
Definitely different experiences, but yeah, agree. Generally, I only like to listen to the audiobook after Iāve read it (unless thereās no other option). Itās difficult for me to not miss important plot points when Iām listening to it, but thatās probably just my ADHD.
My daughterās class (6th grade) is reading Hunger Games. I feel like thatās a great way to get kids into it.
Nice, and yeah, definitely. Until my senior year English class, the only books were were allowed to use for any reading assignment were Shakespeare or Newberry award books.
Yeah, school does a decent job at putting you off whole genres of things but thereās still many things Iāll happily read. Classic literature is so dull.
Tbh I hate reading because of school but itās not because we had to read classics, itās because in my school we werenāt allowed to read anything out of an arbitrary reading bracket.
Even if you wanted to take home an interesting book from the library you werenāt allowed to unless you read all the books between your current level and the level they put the book on. We had to pass comprehension tests to see if we understood the book we just read but we could only do it once a week so going up a single level could take most of the school year.
I can understand their attitude, I donāt share it but I can understand it.
It is quite hard to try new books when youāre not sure what you might like, it is trial and error with each trial requiring a commitment of a few hours.
I agree with audiobooks, they are a easier to get into just because they donāt require to stop everything and allow to do other stuff at the same time.
I think some people are bad at reading through no real fault of their own. Then they feel, consciously or subconsciously, embarrassed and angry when they try.
I also think a lot about a woman I knew that was like āanalysis is stupid. Sometimes a story is just a story!ā, and that was very strange to me. I asked some more questions, and she said she hated how in school they were always reading and being told to find the secret meaning. I was like, your education failed you. The game isnāt find the meaning. The game is finding a meaning you can support in the text.
Like, Dracula can just be a book about a dude that bites people. But you can also look at it and be like āhmm so these women abandon their āmotherlyā duties of raising children and staying in the home, and the only way to āfixā them is for some men to hold her down and penetrate her with a big piece of wood? Hmmmā
But, also, you donāt have to think hard about everything you read. You donāt analyze every TV show, even though you could.
āhmm so these women abandon their āmotherlyā duties of raising children and staying in the home
More than that! When Lucy is turned into a vampire, she feeds on children. She turns into the very opposite of the motherly feminine ideal. The same is true of Draculaās brides, who feed on a baby in one of the early chapters. Dracula, by contrast, feeds on adults. He shows an interest in Jonathan (bisexual? Eww, thatās not natural!āside note, Stoker himself was likely bi) but most of his attention is focused on women like Lucy and Mina. The expectation of a gentleman being a chivalrous protector of ladies is inverted.
Thereās also the fact that Lucy, who early in the book expresses her wish to marry all three of the men who proposed to her:
Why canāt they let a girl marry three men, or as many as want her, and save all this trouble?
Itās the very sexually-forward woman who ends up succumbing to vampirism and being killed for it. But not before receiving the bodily fluids from all three of those propositionersāplus van Helsing. The sexual undertones of the blood transfusions are hardly subtle, but this also ties into another major theme of the book, which is how powerful modern science and technology can be as a tool to defeat strange unnatural superstition.
Weāve recently been doing a Dracula bookclub over at [email protected], reading through each diary entry/letter/newspaper clipping on the day it is set. We are, as we speak, amid the section between when Lucy has died and arisen as a vampire, but before she has her final death at the hands of the crew of light. In fact, as soon as Iām done with this thread Iām gonna go and do todayās reading, and I think that might be Lucyās last. edit: I was wrong. Lucy unlives for another nightā¦or twoā¦
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I knew someone who hated reading in highschool but shortly after highschool discovered she liked reading for pleasure. She started with books like Twilight and The Hunger Games. I personally donāt recommend Twilight but I do recommend The Hunger Games.
I was a voracious reader but there are so many time wasters now. Well and my eyes are not as good as they used to be making reading sorta a pain.
Some people are hiding in this category as well. I donāt trust people who, when you ask their favorite book, tell you itās hatchet, to kill a mockingbird, Atlas shrugged, etc etc. If it was a school read, chances are itās one of like 5 books they ever actually read.
I still love To Kill a Mockingbird, and Iāve read thousands of books since high school. I wouldnāt say itās my favorite but itās up there.
Itās possible to like one from that list or for one to be your favorite. I have a friend who says his favorite is great Gatsby.
It usually means we should ask more questions, because people who read who choose books from school are I think a minority. Most of those books are good for discussion and generally likeable but not āholy shit this it the book for meā kinds of books.
Captain AggravatedIs Hatchet the one where the kid survives a plane crash or the one where the kid just decides to go live in the woods with a falcon? I read both of those books at about the same time in my life and they kinda blended into one story in my head.
I have to keep reminding myself that there wasnāt a book about a kid who survived a plane crash and then learned to survive in a little house he made in a tree with a falcon he tamed. Thereās the plane crash survival book, and the kid just decided to go live in the woods book, and the former contains a lot more lists of what he ate than you probably remember.
Hatchet is the plane crash. The other is āmy side of the mountainā.
Lots of gut cherry references in hatchet, and one instance of profanity as I recall.
You could convince me that the high school curriculum is designed to take any interest in reading out of teenagers. K-8 tends toward stories that are intended for children to enjoy because thatās how child psychology works, but from the age of 14 on up itās crusty old shit written in dead languages or in English so old no one remembers what the slang words mean, about shit no one cares about anymore.
Shakespeare is the classic example. Shakespeare was kind of the Joss Whedon of his day; he not only wrote in Ye Olde Englishe, but he wrote in slangy quippy word play-ey Ye Olde Englishe. Like, imagine high school students of the 2400s taking turns reading the script of Firefly out of a textbook, the kid who got assigned to read Malās lines tripping over stuff like āAnd I think you werenāt burdened with an overabundance of schooling.ā 25th century school kids are going to write papers about 21st century attitudes to homosexuality due to the use of the word āslyā in one throwaway line in the episode set in a whorehouse. I really want to hear a 25th century English teacher tastefully describing who and what Saffron is. Then in their Junior year theyāre going to do three random episodes of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
Thatās what studying Shakespeare is like in a modern high school. It would blow William Shakespeareās mind that school children in nations that didnāt exist during his lifetime are taught what āRomeo and Rosemary begin with a letterā means.
Why do we do it this way?
understanding technology
Otherwise-smart people who just throw their hands up and say, āI just canāt do this high tech stuff!ā
Motherfucker itās easier to operate than your car, how do you even live
Midnight Wolflooking at their car, beat to hell and currently on fire, sideways, in a handicapped spot
āā¦never mindā
Accelerating when merging onto the highway, rather than slowing down.
šMedicPigš·BabySaveršHa, Iām the person that got āin troubleā for yelling at my partner while she tried to merge onto the busiest highway in our area at 45mph.
My supervisor didnāt seem to care that we couldāve been killed when another driver slams into our ass end.
rudyharrelsonIād say, even if a driver is making a mistake, yelling at them while theyāre driving is not the solution. I understand being nervous or frustrated while in the passenger seat, but yelling at the driver just doesnāt seem helpful, even if youāre yelling useful advice at them. If anything, youāre likely distracting them from making a decision at a critical moment.
Iām very comfortable behind the wheel, but my wife is not. I could not imagine yelling at her while sheās already in an uncomfortable position like that.
I yelled: āStep on the gas before we get hit!ā
Iād certainly yell at any driver that puts my life at risk on the road.
Weāll have to agree to disagree. If anyone yelled at me in such a manner while I was driving, Iād never offer to drive them anywhere again. At that point, they can drive themselves or walk.
Itās an ambulance. She should be a competent driver from the get go.
Politeness. It changes the atmosphere of a conversation/community/country when people are polite.
Obligatory answer on behalf of rest of Lemmy: Linux
Other than that, going for a walk without listening to anything. An idle and undistracted mind is great for mental health.
Obligatory answer on behalf of rest of Lemmy: Linux
Just because Iām on Lemmy does not mean I run Linux.
I meanā¦
I do run Linux.
But itās not because Iām on Lemmy.
(I tried to put this on the Will Smith meme, but my meme creation skills failed me.)
Thatās fine. Iād love to get back to the days words being funny on the internet without needing it to be on an image
Goldholz Self cooking with more vegies and only meat once a week or so. And so sugar in diet
Spacial awareness in public, especially in grocery stores. People often stop with a cart right in the entrance and seem oblivious they are blocking the way for others while they dig in their bag for the shopping list.
I wish people would stop killing all the insects. Weāve kicked the bottom out of the food chain, and no one seems to have noticed. Iāve seen populations tank over the last two decades, even year by year.
Summer before last, when I took the kids to the creek weād have to start a smoky fire to keep the mosquitoes and flies off. Didnāt bother this year, not once. Went hiking yesterday and only had 2 mosquitoes annoy me. Yāall, that creek is surrounded by swamp. Saw a few frogs, zero fish, not even minnows.
September in NW Florida has always meant a lovebug invasion. They were so bad when I moved here that natives advised me to wash my car a couple of times that month because their guts would eat clear coat. Last year I saw a few dozen couples, stuck butt-to-butt (hence the name) in my driveway. The month is all but over and Iāve not seen a single one. Not fucking one.
Five years ago Iād count the tree frogs and salamanders on my front porch. I leave the porch lights on 24/7, so free food for amphibian friends. Havenāt seen either animal in 3 years. Used to have to spray the bug guts off the lights several times in the spring and summer. Just looked, theyāre fairly clean, havenāt sprayed them for over a year.
For context, Iām on the bleeding edge of town. I can walk 10 minutes and be into hundreds of acres of forest and swamp. This aināt the middle of the city from which Iām observing these events.
Nothing else makes me so internally panicked. Rise of fascism? Historical trend, itās here, someday it will be gone. Global warming? Not so immediate, not seeing clear and deniable changes year to year, not so much up in my grill. My planet is dying, Iām scared shitless, and no one even notices.
Also in Florida and yes the insect apocalypse is the most ominous sign of doom. And their life cycles are so short, just lay off for a couple of years, they would probably bounce fast!
Thought I saw a firefly on the trail last week. Probably not. Havenāt seen one since I bought this house 8 years ago. Not one. And at that time? Only one.
Iāve got a pretty wild yard. Weāve brought frogs back, and next year I hope dragonflies mature and come boiling out my little water features. Pretty sure weāre driving the butterfly population, and the hummingbirds are slightly more populous than last year.
But my god man, Iām only one person, with one yard, and Iām nearly broke. I have 40+ guns, but I canāt go out and fight fascism by myself. I want to scream and rage, but I do what I can do, defend what I can.
RebekahWSDFrom what I know, fireflies love dead leaves and laying eggs under those. So donāt rake the leaves! Let them be. Or some of them at least. We havenāt raked leaves from under our bushes for ages and we always get some fireflies in the summer now!
Iāve never seen a firefly, they donāt come this far south. We do have dragonflies, and I still see plenty of lizards, and unfortunately the squash bugs are doing fine, but the city of bees that used to appear when this one random bush bloomed by the garden never comes around anymore, and I can fearlessly turn over bricks piled in the yard, that used to be a nightmare with a palmetto bug under every one!
BlisterexeIf itās any consolation I spent some time on a lake in canada this summer, and there is a bunch of wildlife: frogs, ducks, even a loon! And way too many mosquitoes and black flies.
Point being its not quite that bad everywhere
š±ššššššššEverything is political.
That said, I wish people cared more about the arts and arts funding. Conservatives have been trying to discredit it all as weird and worthless for ages now, and thatās unfortunately permeated deep into our culture. Art is literally one of the tools we have against fascism.
Im a sciencey type but throughout my life I have seen the value of the sciences and very glad my major was in the LAS college.
Spatial awareness? Make sure the amount of space youāre taking up isnāt inhibitive to others, e.g., let people with burdens through, donāt take up more than your share of a walkway