I respect it. I’m not looking to be served by an outright asshole, but I’m no fan of servility or unnecessary deference. As long as he gets the job done, he’s welcome at the table any time. Hell, join us for the meal, make light conversation about the history of the place. It’d be memorable.

I’m on the other side of that.

I’m not paying to pretend be your friend I’m paying you to serve me my food get the fuck out of that chair… is my thought.

and offended
lmfao

don’t you know not to denigrate the lordship by seating yourself on equal elevation while receiving orders‽
It’s a complete breach of basic social etiquette to sit down at somebody’s table and talk to them like you know them, it’s baffling to me that you don’t get that- actually it’s not that baffling really
I agree you shouldn’t do it but to say you’re offended is weird as fuck and wreaks of classism.