JulesBeing misgendered by random people is sort of okay for me: they call me a woman, whatever.
Being misgendered by people close to me... apparently really isn't okay for me: it hurts.
Amalia Zeichnerin@quidcumque
I feel that. I am not out to my parents and siblings. They are all straight and have little or no contact to queer people and respective topics, as far as I know.
I wouldn't even know how to start to explain agender to them (and I don't want to). But getting misgendered by them does hurt. It feels so wrong.
I don't mind being misgendered by strangers.
I feel that. I am not out to my parents and siblings. They are all straight and have little or no contact to queer people and respective topics, as far as I know.
I wouldn't even know how to start to explain agender to them (and I don't want to). But getting misgendered by them does hurt. It feels so wrong.
I don't mind being misgendered by strangers.
@amalia12 this was a person I am, in fact, out to. It feels awful.
@quidcumque
Yes, that's awful. Did they at least notice their mistake?
Yes, that's awful. Did they at least notice their mistake?
@amalia12 I told them, they ignored it. They're also not very firm in modern gender stuff and don't really get how I feel.
I understand that; it still hurts.
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