Critical Thinking...
Critical Thinking...
I actively envy the stupid. Every day.
Imagine how life must be when your greatest concern is Disney or some social media drama. These people just float through the day entirely unbothered by the myriad of existential crises that are stalking them like prey.
They’re aggressively wrong about so many things. And absolutely iron clad confident in their wrongness.
Everybody is wrong, just by different degrees. E.g. you believe they are stupid but maybe they just choose their battles differently.
How clever are the not so stupid people if they cannot use the internet to create a better place for themselves?
Being a cat would be nice, but I’d be happy just to have half their self-advocacy skills.
Me: “Um, hey, I am sorry to bother you, but could you scootch your chair a teeny bit? I need to get to the table behind you. Okay, a bit more. Just a smiiiidge more.” Holds breath and squeezes by. “Okay, thank you! Sorry again for bothering you.”
Meanwhile,
Cat: Pounces onto pillow at 5am “Wake up, bitch. It’s time for my breakfast. Now I’m going to meow repeatedly into your face until you comply with my demands.”
Cat: Pounces onto pillow at 5am “Wake up, bitch. It’s time for my breakfast. Now I’m going to meow repeatedly into your face until you comply with my demands.”
The solution to that is to make it very clear, from the beginning that you do not negotiate with terrorists but you do acknowledge her/him and return kindness with kindness. There’s a reason my wife’s relationship with our cat involves a lot more being bitten and meowed at until demands are met than mine does.
You want to me your cat because you treat them well.
Being any random cat could be rough. There are a lot of terrible pet owners out there.
Nearly everyone in this country lacks critical thinking skills.
It’s why we still have a two-party system.
I live in a deep red part of the country, surrounded by those people. Not a single one of them I’ve met seems happy. They’re all angry, paranoid and miserable.
Most are over weight, uninsured, underemployed, and have a whole host of health issues on top of it. Voting for Trump didn’t change any of that, they’re still all miserable.
you’re looking at them from your perspective of “happy”.
they look miserable to you because by all logic, they are.
their brains have been reprogrammed to believe they’re happy because they are " winning" because you are “losing”.
I don’t know man… They’re all pretty eager to complain about their problems and winge about how ‘unjust’ the world is, or how persecuted they are.
When people tell you who they are, usually it’s safe to believe them. None of these people wanna talk about how they’re happy. They look miserable, but they act miserable too.
That’s one way to look at it.
Same thing I’ve observed, but the look of unhinged glee they get when they talk about ICE or police brutality against minorities is telling me they are happy with the current status and are willing to suffer as long as the others they hate suffer more.
these fools have a persecution fetish I’ve never before, and I’ve seen some pretty mentally ill people in my time.
I heard that sentiment a lot the last couple of days, and people were so serious about it. It was mostly because I thought it was common sense to use sun protection with my 3 year old and not let her play out in the sun in a short bathing suit at noon and without a hat. And that I preferred her to wear socks and tucked in pants when they went to a forest with ticks.
You worry too much Look at us, we also made it here, and our parents didn’t look out for these things How are people even living nowadays with all their restrictions Think less you’ll sleep better Ignorance is bliss, we just don’t overthink it
Your kids all look like tomatoes turning into raisins y’all
I feel like in a fever dream
True bliss is being able to live the serenity prayer (at least stripped of the religious aspects): the courage to change the things you can, the serenity to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.
People who feel burdened by knowledge tend to be bad at separating the concept of things that are bad and things that you should actually worry about.
Ignorance of danger might be good for happiness if you’re powerless to stop it. But it might be bad for happiness if you suffer harm that you didn’t have to, just because of your own ignorance. People who live like that sometimes feel like they’re just tossed around by the world, powerless against the forces that affect their lives.