Oh, also, since I've got you here:

That weird sex thing you're super ashamed of, and have never told a soul that you're into?

Like half of your friends are into it too, and are just as scared of saying anything. You could be having an interesting conversation with them right now.

Just sayin'.

It might be a quarter. But statistically, from what the research says about kink? Unless you're a shut-in, *someone* you're friends with is into it, pretty much guaranteed.

Shame sucks. Sure, talk in private, but it's just sex. It's not that big a deal.

Signed: a gal who's ace-spectrum.

@Impossible_PhD My kinks go from boring typical to frankly bizarre. Heeled boots, gloves, to anything with electricity.

Never shared that with anyone out of fear or shame.

@BioWD Girl, heels are THE BEST. I've got like three pairs of platform heels for the bedroom myself.

And electro play isn't my cuppa, but I know several people who are into it. It's really common in BDSM circles.

As for gloves: we talking like, nitrile globes or opera globes or...?

@Impossible_PhD Opera. Its so elegant and fancy and oh man it just kills me

And with heels its mostly boots like thigh high or knee high. Also just the click click of heels.