Hey.
Hey, you.
Yeah, you. The person reading this. You, specifically.
Be messier and weirder. Fuck up more. And cut people a break when they're messy and weird and fuck up, if you can.
Queerness is about being messy.
Hey.
Hey, you.
Yeah, you. The person reading this. You, specifically.
Be messier and weirder. Fuck up more. And cut people a break when they're messy and weird and fuck up, if you can.
Queerness is about being messy.
Oh, also, since I've got you here:
That weird sex thing you're super ashamed of, and have never told a soul that you're into?
Like half of your friends are into it too, and are just as scared of saying anything. You could be having an interesting conversation with them right now.
Just sayin'.
It might be a quarter. But statistically, from what the research says about kink? Unless you're a shut-in, *someone* you're friends with is into it, pretty much guaranteed.
Shame sucks. Sure, talk in private, but it's just sex. It's not that big a deal.
Signed: a gal who's ace-spectrum.
@Impossible_PhD pfft, like I would ever
Much less basically end up building an entire FFXIV FC around one while discussing many others in the FC discord

@Impossible_PhD @tess I was gonna make a joke about not thinking of it as a kink because y'all have your doctorin' papers and I'm just naturally stupid, but then I remembered that the initial conversation went something like
"can y'all confirm that Jenny is just as much of a bim as the rest of us"
"but I'm not, unless [highly specific adjacent kink] counts"
"it does and also we like you, stupid"
I forget if I was going anywhere with this, I got really distracted picking out emoji for y'all. 