Not because we aren't -trying- to do what's asked of us, most of the time... But because what is asked of us is literally made impossible.

Thinking of and using my own immigration situation as an example: It is a legal requirement that, in order to visit the foreign police, I have to make an appointment using the online system. I can only go on certain days during certain hours, and I cannot make an appointment for another reason (even if by accident because maybe I don't understand the difference between two very similarly named options).

However!

When the system isn't working and no one is doing anything to fix it (and honestly, it was likely sabotaged from within) for months on end... And they won't answer phone calls or respond to emails and they won't give you an appointment through any other means except that online appointment system...

... What choices do you have other than to start doing things vaguely illegally?

And that's only the beginning of this issue, that's only a small little moment that can drive a person to desperation. Being told that you need to do something, trying to do that thing, and then never being able to because people won't let you? That creates a sense of urgency because your time keeps ticking down... and sometimes expires, leaving you in a realm of being "illegal" because you're not able to do things "correctly" because the whole system isn't allowing you to.

The further you delve into looking at immigration procedures, the more absurd it becomes. The more ridiculous the information they ask of you, the more unable you might be (or actually are) to acquire it... How you get what you're asked to get and then they change it on a whim, how new laws are introduced whenever they want to curb shit...

There's so, so, so much.

I also am not really interested in talking with people who are like "Well, I don't want to leave the country I was born in" and then are applying that frame of reference to everyone else around them.

Similarly, I do not enjoy being around people who seem to think that the security immigrants have is somehow more than that of people who are citizens. We are far more fucking precarious.

However, it is not lost on me that the citizens of places who've historically struggled to maintain citizenship within the places they were born are generally more likely to empathise with immigrants. Because they know they are precarious and that -having- citizenship does not save you from losing it, should someone decide to deny it.

Too many people are comfortable in the belief that because they have something that no one will take it from them, but... A lot of us know this isn't true.

@whatanerd Friend of mine is a USA citizen. Lives in an EU country, legally (for now, anyway). He’s married to a citizen of this country — they met and got married back in the USA, then moved to the EU together. He’s lived there six-ish years now? A1 in the local language.

Also, he’s not a citizen despite trying this entire time, because the gov’t keeps goalpost switching and doing this kind of passive technical BS like you describe.

They’re thinking about moving back to the USA…

@sidereal Yep, part of the issue with my current situation is that we were trying to switch me from temporary to permanent residency.

However, the current nazi fucks in power decided to change up requirements. As of July 1, everyone getting a permanent residence will need A2 minimum language fluency (and that's also fun because the internal examiners often cause a whole lot of problems, hooray). Keep in mind that most people on temporary visas are basically trapped doing work (either on a visa for a company or on a "freelance" visa because their company was a bunch of stingy fuckers), meaning we've been working our asses off and might not have support getting lessons (in terms of available time or access), so getting to permanent residence (which removes income and employment stipulations) helped us integrate and learn the language.

Not so anymore!

@whatanerd Example of this was providing proof of citizenship for residency permit after birth of one of our children. We had to provide proof of citizenship within 6 months of birth. We applied for a passport ASAP, but issuing authority just sat on the application.