spent a day and a half debugging a misskey issue, turns out it was an IPS/IDS issue due to my special setup

you know a reverse proxy in a vps, it then connects to services in my home lab over a vpn. this was the only thing getting hit on all my reverse proxy apps
also might have a bit of in and out of service, during the debug, i move it to a different vps for about an hour to help debug, but things should go stable soon