@actuallyautistic On a related note to my last post, I came across this today... Wow!

My 35-Year-Old Son Is Learning to Drive. It’s Complicated.

Sam Huber’s autistic mind processes every moment and movement in technicolor intensity as he struggles to get his license. For his father, Robert, the question isn’t can he—but should he?

By Robert Huber and Samuel Huber· 4/27/2025

Excerpt: "I look down at the controls, and I get a little dizzy looking at all of the knobs, gears, pedals, and the steering wheel. The thought of having to move my hands and feet in sync to get this bucket of bolts going is scary.

"After checking that all the mirrors are to my liking, I start the car, which roars like a lioness on the hunt. I want to scream, Why does this seem so loud when I am in the driver’s seat?!?! I reach into my pocket for my trusty headphones to block out this horrible noise, but they aren’t there. Sweet baby Jesus! Am I going to have to listen to this car the whole time? How can anyone focus on driving with that noise?"

#Autism #DrivingWhileAutistic #Autists #RulesOfTheRoad #Distractions

@DoomsdaysCW I'm thinking that sound sensitivity is going to make the experience far worse. @actuallyautistic
@Tooden @DoomsdaysCW @actuallyautistic
You learn to use it. To become more in tune with the car and your surroundings, to be more aware of what's going on. It just takes you longer to get there than other learners. But, once you have, you tend to be far better. It least that is my experience, both as a professional driver of over thirty years and a driving instructor for 22 years of that.
@DoomsdaysCW @actuallyautistic EVs have no engine noise. Bliss!
@anne_twain @DoomsdaysCW @actuallyautistic Agreed. You don’t know what you hear until it’s gone. Silence is golden.
@DoomsdaysCW @actuallyautistic This brings back bad memories of Driver's Ed.