Do you like driving? How come?

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Do you like driving? How come? - lazysoci.al

Some love it, some hate it.

I like cruising. There’s nothing like a state highway in the US that’s popular enough to be well maintained, but not so popular that it’s crowded and in the suburbs. They whisk you past some amazing sights and pieces of Americana that are quickly fading.

As for commuting, anything more than 20 minutes one way is either hell or a trip needing some level of planning between walking to the fridge and sending man to the moon.

You see some great things cruising. What’s some of your favourite things that you’ve seen?
Kind of. The act of driving itself is not pleasurable from me on it’s own, but I mentally connect it with road trips which I love.
And this is the only situation in which I drive. If I had to use a car every day, I’d despise driving completely.
I’ve never had a driver’s license and I never will. Expensive, polluting and boring.
Boring? How do you know if you don’t have a license
Believe it or not, I have been in a car many times in my life :)
Its all about the what and where. I cant stand city traffic, but an empty winding road feels like freedom. The car you are driving also makes a lot of difference. I personally only buy cars that are fun to drive. I had a smart roadster and now i drive a miata (mx5 where i am from).
I like to drive but I hate traffic. Not only traffic jams but also just normal traffic. I live in a densely populatd country, so I prefer the train. But I absolutely loved driving in rural Chile or Scandinavia.
Not really but public transportation usually sucks so I’m doing most things by car nowadays. I’m probably getting old but the idea of driving at lethal speeds through crowded spaces actually terrifies me. I’ve never been in any serious accident but to think that I’m sitting in some death machine is unnerving.

Hate driving cars. Love riding an e-bike.

In a car, I feel much more vulnerable, ironically. I’m a big chunk of metal that’s hard to miss if anything goes wrong, and that even minor mistakes will result in expensive damage.

Love it. Anything, any road, doesn't matter. I am driving, and driving is me.

I have to drive quite a bit for work and absolutely hate it, its time consuming (/waste of time), tiring, bad for the environment. The only reason I like driving is that its currently faster and cheaper than public transport.

I just wish public transport was a lot better, currently it’d take me 50 minutes to get to the closest major city close to me while its 25 minutes with car.

In terms of going home, its a 2 hour 30 drive. With public transport it’d be 50 minute bus + 2 hour train + 30 minute bus resulting in a longer commute but also the car costs about 40-60 euros in gas and public transport would be 80 euros train + 5 euros bus

I would love it but people are assholes all the time
I like driving and I drive for fun. However, I work from home. Before covid, I certainly didn’t like driving during rush hour, that was too stressful.
Depends on why I’m driving. A regluar rush-hour commute isn’t enjoyable but almost all other driving is. Last year I drove from the UK to San Marino and back - with stops on the way. By the end of the trip I was happy to get home, but I still wanted to do the driving.
No. I don’t trust myself.
Usually work from home but have an old daily driver from the sixties. Love to drive to the office with a “fun” car when I want to.
I like driving. My commute is not so busy that I have to deal with slowdowns, I can listen to whatever while I go to and from work. It’s a nice little break where I decide what is happening. A manual transmission would add to the sense of control, but alas, I haven’t bought one of those. Also strictly enforced speed limits limit the enjoyment.
It sounds backwards, but I like driving because it’s a time when I can’t scroll or play games. I drive to the next town over (about an hour’s drive) 2 or 3 times most weeks. It’s a good chance for me to listen to something, or just ponder. I’ve been listening to the Bible over that drive more often lately.

Yes, mostly. Depends on the car and the road.

Old car, Ford Falcon AU, didn’t really like driving. It’s a shit car, just unbreakable so it was a good purchase.

New car, Nissan Skyline GTR 370, love driving. The economy is shit and it needs premium for a fun $2/L, but it’s just nice to be in. Stuck in traffic? Comfortable, good audio, good air con. Open country roads? Plenty of power, handles great.

So if car is fun, I like driving, if car is not fun, don’t like driving.

I love riding my motorcycle. I only drive a car on Saturday to get groceries. Beyond that, i daily a bike. I have two for different purposes. For sure, i love my harley. I have to commute about 30mins to work, so i get a bit of time everday. Just enjoy the feeling of being on 2 wheels. Even in the rain, or 110+ heat.
Wow how long have you been biking!
Rode most of my life. Was out of motorcycling for a few decades, but since moving to the SW I am riding all the time. Been here for 4-5 years now.
Nice one! What got you into it?
I like the minimalist aspect of a motorcycle. The bare minimum to travel. A seat, attached to a motor, attached to a pair of wheels.
Hate it 99.9% of the time. I briefly lived somewhere where everything you would need was a 5 minute walk from home and it was incredible. My city is designed to be as inefficient as possible and to force as many people to drive as possible.
I love it. My secret is that I try to walk more in the city when it’s possible, or avoid peak traffic hours if driving. I don’t have a regular 9-5 commute. I also regularly drive a curvy route with fairly new asphalt that has very little traffic, because it’s actually a shortcut compared to the highway which has a bit more traffic.

Driving yes, quite a bit. Especially if you can get out on a racetrack. Was decades after I had left schooling before I realized all that stuff they try to teach you in physics about friction and momentum all actually have real world application for us normies. Would have learned so much more in school if I could have put 2+2 back together then, but I also can’t imagine putting 14 year olds out on a racetrack either.

And even when not racing, just the freedom of being able to hop in the car and drive to another state is just downright liberating. Bored? Well, shit, hop in the car, let’s go have an adventure! (I will admit, at my age, ‘adventure’ is code for ‘ice cream shop’, but it still makes me smile, so fuck it.)

That said, most of us only use our cards for commuting, which is the worst possible experience. It’s no wonder so many folks hate driving, their only experience with cars is the bad one. All of us just sitting in traffic wishing we didn’t have to go to work. I am seriously angry at our world for not pushing much harder for remote working. We proved it worked great during COVID, and yet here we all are back in the office.

No; I’m a shitty driver and other drivers that are problem drivers combined with my shit driving scare me.

I think I picked it up from my parents (who are both terrible drivers also). I’m sorry everyone! I’m working on it. Really I am!

It’s fine I understand haha. Are you neurodiverse? It can be linked
Yeah, I have ADHD. It is both my crime and punishment lol.

No.

It’s exhausting, and I’m not good at it.

And when I say “I’m not good as it” I don’t mean below-average. If anything, I’m an above-average driver, but the average is abysmal and most people on the road should frankly not have licenses.

I get that. Are you neurodiverse? It can be linked to some conditions like dyspraxia
Dyspraxia Foundation

I’m in the process of being evaluated for ADHD, but I definitely don’t have dyspraxia; I’m a dancer and waitress.
Well done for getting the adhd evaluation they can be hard to get. I have dyspraxia so I’m v jealous of your ability to dance.
I should probably try again to get an ADHD diagnosis. Last time I tried I got a phone call maybe a month later from the clinic saying that the evaluation board or whatever had given no diagnosis, not a “you don’t have it” diagnosis just declined to give a result. So anyway I really didn’t feel like following up at the time.

Love. Its just commuting to work along with other drivers who don’t know the rules of the road that make the experience unpleasant.

But a Boss 302 can make even commuting fun. 😉

Depends. Commuting is dumb, I would rather have robust public transit. But night driving and blasting music while looking out over the city lights is pretty dope.

I love some aspects of driving… I love my car and how nice it looks when it’s clean and shiny. I love feeling the acceleration and driving through twisty roads. I love being outside and feeling the sun, while seeing all the varying sights across the city. I love the freedom of going anywhere, and effortlessly carrying passengers and cargo with me.

I don’t like traffic or contributing to traffic. I HATE that we feel the need to pave over our shrinking green space for new highways. I hate the salt and pollution that comes with so many roads and cars.

No. I’m good at it. I’ve got truck and motorcycle licences too. I prefer walking or bicycling, there aren’t great options for those in my suburb.

Was an anxiety trigger. When I removed it from life other areas improved. Understand some do not have the luxury and am appreciative.

Hated it from the very first moment. Tried everything to make it work.

Used to like it, but it faced over time, mostly due to the car being far beyond its prime. Not that I minded driving an old car, but I could no longer assume that it’d last the entire trip without trouble.

Then a little over a week ago I bought a new (to me) car. And that’s when I noticed what I’d been missing for the past few years: I’d started to enjoy driving again.

Another factor was that once upon a time everything I owner could fit into my 1996 Volvo 940. And I took advantages of this a few times by moving across Europe. Later I became a family man, so that wasn’t the case anymore, but it was OK: The entire household could fit in the car with a lot of luggage space as well.

Around the time when the old car symptoms really started to show up more and more frequently, we got a surprise 6th family member, and traveling anywhere now involved a lot of planning and usually sticking the oldest kid on an airplane or coordinating with someone else driving the same route.

But my new car (2019 Volvo XC90) can fit everyone, so now we can just hop in the car and go. So come summer I think we’re just gonna go on a road trip down through Europe for the first time in 15 years.

I love driving. I love my cars. Plus my commute to/from work has very little traffic and it’s probably the highlight of my day. And that’s what I love my job too.
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When I first started driving I had extreme anxiety. Like, it was really bad. I’m pretty sure I cried over it several times. I attribute this in part to the fact that my driving instructor was a humongous asshole.

Over time, I began to relax with it a bit more and even enjoy it. On a nice day, sometimes it’s nice to just drive around and vibe to some music. I don’t like it as much now because I don’t like traffic and such, but thankfully I’m nowhere near the levels of panic-inducing I felt initially.

I enjoy driving. Long distance road trips I love. And driving around in the summer in my old Miata with the top down is an amazing experience.
I love it; it gives me some nice peace and quiet
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I like driving, road trips, weekend excursions, trips to the local race track, cruising events, take a drive to clear your head and listen to some music, etc. I’d give it up for better cities designed around people and walking and biking than cars, but driving never bothered me as long as I can avoid very densely populated cities and countries with traffic conventions I’m not experienced with.

I like to drive for short periods of time (less than an hour) on countryside empty roads. Everything else stress me out.

So… No I don’t like driving.

Hate driving when there are other cars. So I hate driving. I didn’t mind driving when I was on the I80, cause it was big and wide and more empty but fuck getting to the I80 from here. NJ has bad drivers and I’m one of them. Gimme better transit, NJ!!!
Love driving until I have to pay more attention to other cars than the road itself.
That’s a good way of putting it

I love taking a casual drive to nearby small towns, especially on less busy freeways at non peak hours. And I also love using my 30 year old nugget that’s getting rarer to see around. I do also love a good road trip across states.

However, I really don’t like driving in cities or basically when I have to. The city I’m in at the moment leaves a lot to be desired for bike lanes (unprotected bike lanes on the shoulder of a major highway is the only route into town for me) so its a toss up between do I ride there exhausted and trusting idiots in high speed boxes, or do I join said idiots.

I love it, driving my toy car is one of life’s greatest pleasures, even just going out for a cup of coffee.

That said, I also love working from home, in a university town I can bike everywhere, or take my one wheel down to the grocery for essentials etc.

Idk why this seems so hard to understand to some of the fuckcars community, but liken it to vegetarianism (which as it happens my community is heavily vegetarian)

In the same way I strive not to eat trash low tier meat, and instead only consume quality, well cared for products… I will happily push redesigns of communities for more pedestrian and pev centric ideals, but it does not need to be black and white such that it would sacrifice cruising the foothills and mountain roads I love so dearly.

Very much dislike driving. It is isolating, toxic and boring. Walking among people, or taking public transportation is much nicer in my opinion (not from the US)

As in operating a car? Yes, it’s fun. When I have new tires I got on the toll road and go real fast around the smooth curves!

As in driving to get places, like work or the grocery, in traffic? No. I take the bike or walk.

So, I like to drive but don’t like needing to drive.

40 years ago, I loved driving. Even 20 years ago it wasn’t bad. Lots of open roads near by. In the big city, rush hour was 30 mins in the morning and an hour or so in the late afternoon. Other than those times you could get around the city quite well. There were always some yahoo drivers but they were a small part of the population not a majority. Now I walk whenever I can, take the bus sometimes and only drive if I know I can do it in the lower traffic (although still busy) times. I’d like to bike more but unless it is a completely separated lane there are too many badly driven vehicles to take chances with my life.

The infrastructure does not exist in order to make me like driving because 1) we live too close to one another and 2) too many other cars on the road. 3) speed limit

I love driving for adrenaline. But I hate driving for functionality.

Obviously I have sold my car before I lose my house