@icil

I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

😅

@icil lets do like this
@lu @icil no thanks, i prefer to get hyped from others until i have no one to tell then dread :3c
@icil fixed that for you
@pearl @icil this is the way and it is the most efficient.
@pearl @icil still too complicated… never reach the point telling anyone 🤯
@icil Is this an ADHD thing? Hard relate 😓
@AnarchoNeighbor @icil There are probably two reasons to stop pursuing a project a) it becomes uninteresting b) it becomes harder than expected. The latter can be caused by anything that reduces available energy or time. Depression for example can trigger both, loss in interest and energy, which are two things that affect each other. You always weigh the importance/thrill of a task against the energy/time it requires.

@icil

Personaly, i started to skip the "tell everyone" part, so not only do i get less outside expections, but also a good load more projects not finished.

Ask me for more tips about increasing productivity.

@icil It would be more efficient to skip "Start new project", having an idea is already enough to talk about it 
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Yeah, but the arrow should circle around 'finish project' three times.
@icil this feels like a targeted attack XD
@[email protected] and then I feel bad about not finishing projects so I just never talk about them
@icil shut uuuuuuuuupppppp
@icil @lcruggeri but if you remove the “tell everyone” choice, only one choice remains… I find that keeping projects to myself greatly increases the likelihood I’ll finish them.
@icil executive dysfunction blows lol
@icil ah, my son's MO
@icil I feel very attacked.
@icil Well.. You see: When you write down or think about your intentions, there’s a gap between where you are and where you want to be. The compelling need to close this gap helps you to act on your intentions. But when you let others know about it, the gap closes because you (artificially) feel the same way you should after completing your intentions. https://www.inc.com/melissa-chu/announcing-your-goals-makes-you-less-likely-to-ach.html
Research Reveals That Publicly Announcing Your Goals Makes You Less Likely to Achieve Them

If you thought that telling everyone your goals creates accountability, think again.

Inc