Acknowledging that being disabled can suck, be painful, be uncomfortable, and be frustrating isn't ableist.
Being nauseated every day isn't something you can just learn to love about yourself.
I don't exist to be inspiration porn for anyone, not even other disabled people.
I want robot limbs, and ramps. Not everyone will want to be a cyborg, and that is fine.
I want a cure for autoimmune diseases, and I want modern HVAC and masks.
I want a cure for ME/CFS, and I want schools to stop expecting perfect attendance.
I want better pain meds, and I want doctors to stop accusing people with chronic illnesses of chasing a high. I want addiction to be treated like an illness, not a moral failing.
Energy-limiting chronic illnesses SUCK. Yes, I am going to recommend avoiding them! Yes, I am going to demand research! In the meantime, the social safety net must account for post-viral illnesses resulting from the most recent pandemic.
My life has value even if I don't want my friends and family to go through what I go through. Come on now.
You get to feel what you want to feel about your body. I get to have my feelings about mine.