So here’s a simple request to Apple. Apple iMessage needs to enable “disappearing messages.” And they need to do it soon. https://blog.cryptographyengineering.com/2025/03/01/dear-apple-add-disappearing-messages-to-imessage-right-now/
@matthew_d_green Signal fairly elegantly avoids this issue by expiring app versions after 90 days so they can make these ecosystem shifts while providing users with reasonable assurances of compatibility/functionality/good UX while not having to swear over supporting multiple protocol versions and downgrade attacks.
Users also not aware of when PQ iMessage encryption is used either AFAIK. It's more for show until all endpoints in a conversation support it.
All a problem of Apple's own making.