Had an interesting conversation about this, and now I gotta ask you people.

Let's assume that we agree that a kink is something sexual.

For something to qualify as being a "kink", does it have to be an _act_ (or action, or inaction), like "getting my feet tickled", or can it also be a thing or person, like "tall people are my kink"?

I'm not looking for factual truth, but for your feelings and personal definition.

#sex #kink

has to be an action
23.2%
can also be a thing or person or whatever
76.8%
Poll ended at .
@scy For me, the action/vs. concept thing is the difference between kink and fetish. You can have a tall people fetish, but only “sitting on someone's shoulders” is a kink.