It is very funny that the two options for casually socializing with a person is "get coffee" or "go to a bar". It is like. You walk up to someone and are like "hello would you like to go ingest stimulants? or perhaps a mood-altering depressant"
@mcc The art of courting is truly lost once upon a time going to community dances was one way of meeting people out of high school and then was dinner clubs and dancing till way too many married people were cruising looking for trouble in different parts of town than they lived in ... Barely any weddings anymore either ... so going to the bar was another option and taking even bigger chances ... sometimes an university club party was another...
You would be surprised what can be learned