It is very funny that the two options for casually socializing with a person is "get coffee" or "go to a bar". It is like. You walk up to someone and are like "hello would you like to go ingest stimulants? or perhaps a mood-altering depressant"
@mcc These days, I find that saying, "Want to go out and play?" tends to give the wrong impression.
@SouthFresh "do u want to have a sleepover"
@mcc I feel that this would lead me to either having to announce to my neighbors anytime I've moved in to their neighborhood, or a black eye.