natei hate "men bad women good" because it also affects children too, what if they transition later? like me? i had to deconstruct so much gender essentialism bullshit just to start taking testosterone and not feel guilty of just being a man instead of a nonbinary-only creature.
feminine boys growing up do not deserve any of this, masculine girls, intersex too, damn, i think children should not be affected by gender/sex oppression at all... and then i am called a freak for thinking that way lol
Amber 
@[email protected] I’m mtf, meaning I was amab. The amount of times I was directly told I was the root of all evil. From the women in my life loudly proclaiming "fuck men" and "all men are evil" along with other rhetoric especially after a messy breakup? My mother would have to console me and explain I was "one of the good ones". I remember how horrible I’d feel seeing the people around me in pain and thinking that just because I was a boy I was hurting them. Shit is fucked on a young child’s psychology… I am not trans because of that, but I mention it because I know what you mean. It’s sick we continue to constantly reinvent gender essentialism
@puppygirlhornypost2 It's sick, disgusting, revolting, and very painful to deconstruct later, i believe cisnormativity only still exists due to the fact that we don't want to deal with this package of trauma everyone has been growing up with. from boys, to girls and intersex, every single one of them will experience the most horrible gender bs and then take it as a fact forever. I still remember being catcalled when I was 11, I will never forget. It's odd how I was constantly catcalled as a child and teenager but not as an adult. Cis roles sucks.