So, our autistic 7 year old (mostly non-verbal) rarely plays with any particular thing for a long time, but the teachers at school put him in a VR set and he watched water for 45+ minutes.

We're thinking of getting one for his birthday. He hardly wants anything, so it'd be nice to do something special. Any recommendations? Thinking a meta quest 2?

I don't think he generally understands or cares about the gaming aspects of things, so we're more interested in open worlds, especially aquatic ones, that he could get immersed in.
Also not concerned about movement because the little God runs around the world 24 hours a day. He had a six pack at age five. He can do situps from a hanging position.

@ZachWeinersmith I have one of those and it's incredible to watch. 11 year old who can do muscle ups and a standing backflip.

Meanwhile I'm working on being able to bend over and touch my toes.

@timrice Yeah! My theory is it's something to do with:
1) enjoyment of physicality
2) diminished pain response (so he can go when others would quit)
3) diminished fear response, so he's cool trying stuff my older kid *never* would.
@ZachWeinersmith @timrice Is he safe around water? I'd hate to see him fall in love with aquatic universes then fearlessly slip into a pond not knowing how to swim.
@ZachWeinersmith I have a Quest 2 and if I was doing it over again today I’d drop the additional money for the 3. I don’t think it does a single thing VR-wise that I care about but the pass through to see the outside world is supposedly a lot better.

@donw @ZachWeinersmith i owned a q2 and now a q3, assuming money is not a concern i'd go for the q3, imaqe qualitys so much better, and a bit better on the neck, too (you might want to look into a better headstrap if long sessions are common).

of course the apple vision pro has an even better display, but it's quite front -heavy, reportedly (and way too expensive imho).

@ZachWeinersmith If you can afford it, and deal with SteamVR, and have a capable computer (which is likely most gaming desktops these days – our RX 580 was sold as VR-capable when it was new and it's quite old now), maybe a Vive/Index or something?

It's nice to not be tied to Facebook and PC VR has some cool stuff.

No Man's Sky is a game but it's also MASSIVE open world with cool aquatic stuff...
ooh I wonder if Abzu has VR support, it's basically a "look at the pretty ocean" simulator.
Subnautica is amazing but might be a little too creepy, but might be fine.

@ZachWeinersmith Doesn't look like Abzu supports VR. :<

NMS and Subnautica both do, though. NMS is rather systems-heavy, which might be confusing... or it might be intriguing! Subnautica is way more ocean-focused and way less complicated, but has the whole Creepy Vibes thing going on.

And sorry I'm only recommending games, I don't know much non-game stuff for this aside from VR-social-spaces which are really cool, but, basically chatrooms and the whole point is to talk with other people.

@ZachWeinersmith I'm a sucker for sandbox games! I can definitely relate.
@ZachWeinersmith sorry but .. "aquatic worlds" [...] "get immersed in" hehehehehehehe well played

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Would he like building stuff? Something minecraft-y?

@ZachWeinersmith love the idea of this, not considered it before! My son loves time with the hose pipe in the garden or going on walks looking for puddles.
@ZachWeinersmith Minecraft, available on all the big VR headsets. Open world and socializing the way neuroatypicals prefer to socialize.
@ZachWeinersmith maybe a kiddie pool, if he could enjoy that safely.
@johnefrancis We got him an outdoor pool for his last birthday :D But he can't swim in the winter and this seemed to be really relaxing for him.
@johnefrancis It's funny. He has all sorts of cognitive stuff but is very physically gifted. He swims like a fish.
@ZachWeinersmith If you have the money, a Quest 3. It's significantly lighter than any of their other Quest models, and would be easier on a child than the bigger, heavier ones.
@ZachWeinersmith I will add that while I have absolutely no professional experience with dealing with autism, my gut feeling is that there are a range of Quest apps available that would be appropriate and useful in that situation. If you move ahead with this I could even make some recommendations if you wish.
@ZachWeinersmith The Quest 3s would be comparable in price but being the newest announced would have longer support plus is supposed to be more comfortable to wear longer.
@ZachWeinersmith is a VR set, with a fixed focal point, good for the eye development of a kid?

@ZachWeinersmith Q3 is better balanced. It's a no-brainer IMO.

Q3S is fine, but uses the old lenses so it's bigger.

Notice though that technically the minimum age for the Quest devices is 13.

@ZachWeinersmith quest 2 is being deprecated for the 3S, so I'd go that route for future-proofing. The Quest 3 (non-S) is the upgrade from that.

I also have deep skepticism about putting a Facebook-owned recording device in my home, but there's literally no better value per dollar. If you want to try VR on a normal person's budget, their deep pockets are a big help

@ZachWeinersmith vr headsets are not recommended for children that young, due to their eyes still developing and the wonky tricks vr headsets play on your eyes. I would definitely do some research and tread carefully.
@ZachWeinersmith you might want to wait a week for the cheaper Quest 3S to come out. It’s got slightly worse resolution than the 3, but either is a major improvement over the Quest 2, specially if you wear eyeglasses.
@ZachWeinersmith if you are still interested, I have a 15% coupon code on the Meta store (the 3S is officially released today)
@fazalmajid Already bought, but thank you!
@ZachWeinersmith A bit late, but I think I read somewhere that children under 11 or 12 should not use VR headsets because their spatial vision is still in development and VR use may be detrimental. You might want to investigate if your little one is going to use one for extended periods of time - even if it is to weigh the risks and benefits.