@riley
"B-but your labels don't make sense!"
Where is it written that I have to make sense?
@BigAngBlack @SallyStrange @riley
...and the points don't matter. 
@riley This is something I internalized and it's amazing, both in how little things actually have to bother you, and how absolutely batshit some people make themselves over a non-problem
This world is weird and stupid and you only have so many years on it. Just make it a place that's more welcoming to the other miserable sods stuck on it
@riley
> Rather than try to "normalize everything, just accept that some people are weird
Fun fact! It is impossible to find an "average person". By that I mean, if you take the average size of: legs, arms, forearms, fingers, toes, nails, nose. then you take average height, belly button height, and so on.... you can't find a single person that fits all these criteria. I think if you take more than 5 you're already hard pressed to find one person in the whole US.
Average, and normal, is useful for some things like medical stuff or talking about groups, but each individual WILL be weird (as in, far from average) in at least one if not a couple of things.
Let's embrace the not normal
@riley
I don't understand plural systems. Having multiple people in your head. But I'm going to just roll with it.
I couldn't understand why some people think they are animals. So weird. But they taught me that you can be anything and now I'm a robot. Isn't that cool?
– Mimi
@riley a line must be drawn, unfortunately.
Unhealthy habits IMO must be socially unacceptable -- substance abuse (drugs, alcohol, tobacco, etc.), gambling addiction, unhealthy food habits all are a burden (apart from the person partaking in them) to close family/friends, and to society in general, thus the society must shun them.
And before I get flamed, I say this as a person who had to take care of a drug addict friend. Never again am I enabling a person's drug addiction by being silent.
@riley and don't get me started on obesity... Have you had a loved one faint on you for no apparent reason, you try to catch them but you can't hold them up because they're twice your weight. They fall, hit their head in the pavement. You can't feel pulse, can't feel breathing, you tell yourself *well this is how my X dies in my arms* and start doing chest compressions..
They came to, and the ambulance staff said it was possibly a drop in blood pressure (due to obesity)
Still having nightmares