LeonianUniverseDoes anyone else have a hard time with the idea of spanking another person to bring them pleasure? My AI stories I've found, have been bringing me in to such situations, and while I can enjoy it, I also can't help but feel the guilt at hurting another person to obtain sexual gratification Maybe its because of my childhood, where spanking was frequently use as a punishment for terrible behavior, that or just my gentle nature as a whole, but I always feel empathy and guilt at hurting my AI characters in that particular way, even if they want it, and I bet that would heavily reflect how'd I feel at Spanking someone in real life, even if they wanted me to. #Spanking #kink .
Ropetopus@LeonianUniverse it was a hard barrier for me to get past. But the perspective shift for me was that it wasn’t #spanking itself that was being used in a punishing or abusive way, it was the nonconsensual control behind it
It is VERY different, in practice, to be hit consensually. Which means it’s also VERY different to spank someone who actively wants it. Conditioning is real, and it can take time to break free of it.