AITAH? - Lemmy.zip

He sucked 100 dicks and with that knowledge and experience, in the end he chose his wife’s.

Remember that.

Either way I feel it's more important how many dicks they sucked after entering the relationship.
I personally don’t want to know and won 't ask, but that’s up to everyone’s personal relationship standards.
My wife and I were both open about ours, and being open about it made trusting easier. I’m not sure who would have an problem knowing approximate numbers unless they have jealousy issues or are judgy.
Because some people like to use it as a bludgeon (or get jealous, as you say). After a couple of those, I decided not talking about it was best and that someone really NEEDING to know/talk about it is actually a red flag.