Ms. Que Banh

Witnessing #codependent friends go into one relationship after another & never spending much time, truly doing self introspection - has never resulted in anything good or great.

It's resulted in witnessing more folks that I care about, harming themselves. There's very little I can do about that when people I care about, refuse to learn to do better for themselves & keep getting into new relationships before dealing with their past relationship traumas.

Aug 30, 2024 at 1:53amWeb
Show threadMs. Que BanhAug 30, 2024
I believe most people are just terrified of being alone for a long time or maybe for rest of our lives. Society kind of pushes coupling up on everyone, to some degree. I am not someone who goes along with those societal pressures. I love my own company & am my own best friend. I have trusted friends too & they're in my life because they respect that I'm a strong minded individual.
Show threadSashinAug 30, 2024
@PhoenixSerenity What do you mean by codependent here?
Show threadMs. Que BanhAug 30, 2024
@sashin Unable to be content alone & always needing to 'rescue' someone. It's completely different than supporting someone without violating healthy personal boundaries. Codependency, in essence, robs folks from living fully true to themselves, outside of others.